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WELL, HELLO!

I love when you love on each other.

Whether you are newly engaged, a new mother and your day old baby, or a couple exchanging vows.

I love capturing love written all over your faces.

Love for life.
Love for each other.
Love for your passion.

This is where I find the real you. Where the the giggles come out. I’ll meet you there.
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People don’t talk about this. 

People don’t talk about their failures. (Or if they do there is usually a happy ending with success or insight.)

People don’t talk about how they are unhappy. That their hearts are aching for something more.

People don’t talk about fighting the fight of faith and how hard it can be. 

People don’t talk about how they walk through life looking for something. How they don’t feel. How the wish they were something else.  

People don’t talk about needing to surrender control.

People don’t talk about how their whole self worth is wrapped up in a computer screen or what they look like in a swimsuit.

People don’t talk about how they deal with the same distractions, temptations, failures over and over. They don’t talk about the ways, they cope with food, excessive t.v. or internet time. Day in and day out they feel completely helpless and frustrated and disappointed with themselves. 

Yet these thoughts and feelings are eating each of us alive from inside. Because we think we are alone. We think that we are the only ones that struggle with that specific thing. We question ourselves “Why do I struggle with this? No-one else does.” “Why can’t I just get it together like everyone else”

I am here to talk about the things people don’t talk about.

I am here to put out truth that I am a failure. I deal with these things daily. I have a hard time. I get overwhelmed. I feel useless. I make mistakes. I make the same mistakes over and over.  I can be weak. I get mad at myself because I expect more out of me. I look for my worth on a screen. I often expect perfection. I am prideful. I sometimes choose mindless activities to avoid.

Why I am saying/admitting these faults about me? Why am I being vulnerable (which freaks me out by the way) by sharing my struggles?

Because I want you to know you are not alone.

I want us to stop hiding behind and stuffing this part of us away. I want you to quit beating yourself up thinking that you don’t have it together and that you are a nobody.  To quit thinking that you are too weak, because Suzy Successful pants is doing this better than you or this better than you. I want you to stop going through the motions and being numb.

So today I am going to share how I felt like a failure. I struggled all day with not having a clear focus and I turned to distractions. My biggest distractions. Food and Hulu. I also added stare-at-your-email-and-panic as a distraction today. Instead of choosing to turn to the LORD and asking for help to use the tools that I have. I chose to check-out. I chose to avoid. I chose to remedy the situation with my own will power. Welp, that didn’t work and I just kept getting more and more frustrated. I kept hearing “Gina, you went through this a week ago and now you are dealing with it again, you failure. You are ridiculous” “Gina you just got off an amazing 10 days on the MTH Tour and came home all fired up and look at you falling down already.” “Who is going to listen to you now? You are a disappointment, a joke” I was holding onto guilt and believing these thoughts. Just trying to remedy through with a new piece of jelly gf toast or another episode of Hart of Dixie.

None of these filled me up. NONE. They never will. I was trying to fill a God shaped hole in my heart with things that will never fill that space.

Today wasn’t pretty. Now typically I would want to create a plan to fix this. To make sure it doesn’t happen again. To make sure that I won’t fail. While I will prepare for a successful day tomorrow, I am keeping in hind sight that circumstances WILL come. I will fail. I will fall on my face. I will give in. That is just part of this world.

Yet If it’s for HIS glory? If it brings me to my knees? I want more of it. If it gets my heart in the right place? I will suffer through it. God is sovereign, he has put these circumstances in my path and he can use any of my failure for good. I just need to let go of my pride and surrender.

Now while I know I need to do this. Doing it is harder than it would seem. Here is where I fight. I fight my flesh. This is where for years I thought that these were my true feelings, the part of me that wanted to defy. The part of me that wanted to check out. The part that wanted the quick and easy fill. Now I am aware that this is the very flesh that can ruin me. This part of me I need to give up. That I am a sinner. I need the Lord Everyday. Every moment.

People don’t talk about sin being strong.

People don’t talk about fighting your own flesh.

But I am talking about it. Because it’s truth and a lot of us are in the thick of it. Struggling and feeling extreme guilt that you are choosing Facebook over your kids. Food over intimacy. T.V. over quiet time with the Lord. Money or possessions over peace.

Truth is powerful my friends. Truth can heal wounds, clear the clutter and bring out joy. We are all struggling in someway or another. So, let’s be REAL and share the good, the bad and the ugly. Because someone has been in your shoes. They might just be in your shoes right now. Your truth will encourage another to be more themselves. More like the beautiful person God made them to be.

I want more of this in my life. More of what that really matters.

Let’s talk about what people don’t talk about.

This beautiful little boy’s expression describes my heart today. His eyes are exactly where I am at.

 

 

I asked my dear friend  Amber to make this poster for me. Why? Because I want to be reminded of this in every moment of my workday.

I want to work HARD. Which in my world doesn’t mean, working till 3am every morning. It means working smarter. Getting rid of distractions. Getting rest & being diligent on my essentials, so that I am 100%. It means preparation. Focusing. Turning off the Internet. Taking social media apps off my phone. Working Smarter.

Then just as important, I want to PLAY hard. This is almost harder than work at times. I must pull myself away from my desk to breathe in fresh air. Have date nights. Laugh with my friends. Devotions. Enjoy a movie. RUN. Dream. Fly in planes. Do Hot Yoga. Get out on a boat. These very things FILL me up. They bring me back to my core. So that I can start right from that very core as I go back into my work.

What can you say NO to this week to help you focus on your work? What distractions can you get rid of so that you can leave your desk, your iPhone, and shut that office door without fear or guilt?

What can you say YES to that you usually put off because your too tired? Or you because you are working till 3 am? Is it cuddling with your munchkins? Being present? Getting outside? Laughing? Feeling whole?

I challenge you to work HARD. Unplug-Download-Action-step your way into PLAYING hard. They go hand in hand. And you deserve both. So what’s stopping you?

 

 

We are exactly a 100 days into the New Year.  You may have set some pretty intense 2012 goals and while the beginning months started off strong, you’re starting to slip. Maybe you are ready to give in and quit.  Maybe you have already given up.

I am here to ask you to change your thinking. What if you got up each day and said HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Who says that you have to start on Jan 1? Who says that there is no point now?

You can decide right now to change your thought pattern. Instead of remembering the places of failure. Remember the goal, the dream, the purpose. Sometimes falling on your face or not accomplishing a goal is part of the journey. So check back in and GIVE YOURSELF another chance.

I also challenge you to reconsider your goals, are they the right ones? Do they still fit? If not cross them off and move on.

If they are still ones you want to accomplish, I want you to write 3-4 action steps below each one. Now an action step should be as simple as…. open the computer or google a phone number. A action step isn’t edit a wedding or redecorate the kitchen. When we don’t break our big to-do’s or goals down we are overwhelmed and intimated about how to get things done.

Most of us have things on our to-do list that seem to hang out there forever. Like going to get an oil change, entering your mileage or going to the dentist. I remember the first time Lara used the oil change example at MTH.

Going to get an oil change 

  1. Pull up your calendar (either on a computer or paper)
  2. Take a peek at your open times & dates (maybe even when you will be in the same area)
  3. Google your oil change companies number
  4. Call
  5. Set an appt
  6. GO

How simple? Yet doesn’t it look like such a BIG thing to us sometimes??

This awesome breakdown that we use in the Making Things Happen Intensive really challenges you to think before you just go do. I have put this to serious work lately and it helps SO much. When I am struggling to find focus. When I am overwhelmed or even non motivated. I pick up one of my awesome little action sheets made by ABD Designs and go! Lately, I have made one in the evening and then laid it on my desk for the next day. This isn’t rocket science people, it just takes a minute to slow down and think.

So what are your goals? Can you get a piece of paper today and think of three action steps underneath each? If you get stuck leave your goal or questions in the comments below and I will help you break them down!  Or share your steps below. I bet we all can help each other out here. For example, if someone posts their action steps to keeping up with their mileage (I am so not good at this), I might just buy them ice cream and do the Macarena….twice.

Seriously people. I am calling a re-do and going to find my Happy New Year Hat and celebrate having a clean slate and new mercies every morning! Don’t just continue to let yourself slip. Know in this very moment that you are completely worth it. You can do this!

PS. If you loved this little exercise and want to learn more? Come grab your seat on the MTH2012 tour, before we sell out again!

 

On our way to the potty, an array of emotions hit me. While hand and hand with my three year old niece, I felt her little fist squeeze as we readjusted our grips and trumped our way to the campground bathroom. With each readjustment and squeeze a tinge of love shoots directly through her hand  into mine.

A squeeze of complete trust, excitement and wholesome cuteness. A smile hits my face and I find myself drifting into our environment. The lightening bugs surrounding us, all of the sudden become o so apparent. The cool of the night, the noise of our feet on the rock path. It really felt that simple. That sufficient in that moment.

There is something immensely beautiful about the innocence and ease of just being kid. No fear, no worry, just holding auntie Gina’s hand with full trust and just simply illuminating love. I want to live like this. Holding my heavenly Fathers hand, with full trust, no fear or worry and just radiating HIS love.

Tonight, my heart and faith were set on fire, all on our way to the potty.

(not my niece above, just my adorable clients and these ‘side of the road’ weeds that I am obsessing about right now, they are SO beautiful!)

 

A new idea here my friends. As most of you know I am working hard to push myself in the world of creativity. In the midst of heavy wedding and engagement  season, I am looking for something with a different flavor. Here is where you come in.

I am asking for an out of the box, unique idea for a styled photoshoot. Share with me your wildest concept, something you have been cooking up for awhile, something you thought a photographer would never want to shoot!! Challenge me.

Examples? Truly anything out of the ordinary that you are passionate about. You and your friends eating pizza, you your nerdy (or cool) hobby,  or a play on props from your childhood.  Some of my favorite shoots as of late are ::  Newlywed SeriesMilya’s DaydreamsLove. These are the feel that I am going for. Inspirational, free form, and creative!

Post a comment detailing your idea by midnight Friday, August 13th. I will choose the idea that catches my eye and my heart the most and the winner will get their idea shot and styled by me!  I am looking to partner with you, to explore your (and my) creativity and to create something memorable.  I will announce the winner on Monday. Show me what you got.

P.S. I might accept bribery. In the form of these boots

 

There is something about watching others carry out their passion. The way it all comes together. The finish.  It’s so inspiring.

I have been working hard to search for these moments around me and really soak them all in. Appreciating art from all angles. From watching the choreographers see their concept become an amazing performance on So You Think You Can Dance, to reading a fantastic book series that has been written brilliantly, to Americas Got Talent where people perform their hearts out by taking big risks and putting it out there.

They give me chills from head to toe, produce a huge grin on my face and my heart gets excited. I can see the blood, sweat, and tears that have put into each concept, plan or song. I am blown away by their talent and can feel the excitement they have about what they are doing. Their passion. Again, so inspiring.

So do your thing, take that big leap, put yourself out there.

People will notice.

 

First and foremost, I cannot even tell you how excited I am to finally be able to share this new brand, site and blog with you.  It has been exactly 6 months since I experienced Making Things Happen in Watercolor, Florida as a part of the first class.  I knew it would be an inspirational weekend but I had no idea that I would walk away with such a sense of self that would spill over into my photography and business perspective. 

After many late nights and long conversations with my incredible designer, Aurora of Red Organic, I started to feel like my company was taking on a personality, my personality.  And there are no words to describe the freedom and joy that comes with getting to that place after having shed more blood, sweat and tears than I new my body held.

Dedication has taken on a whole new meaning.  In the last 6 months, I have quit my day job, altered my perspective on life, learned multiple things the hard way and yet have daily felt God’s presence in my struggles, triumphs and growth.  The worrying, self conscious Gina has been shown the door.  I am new.  I am me.  And me feels good.

Community has played a huge role in the steps I have taken as well.  At Watercolor, Jeff Holt made a statement that has stuck with me through this entire process.  He encouraged us to “live within our arc of creativity.”  That has made all the difference for me.  Many of you that are reading this have been my community over the past few months.  I cannot say thank you enough for believing in me as I make this transition.  Please know I could not have done it without you.

So, with an overflowing cup and a giddy heart, I give you the new brand, blog, site (thanks to the rockin’ team at Flosites) and me.  The me that promises to laugh with you, rejoice with you and share with you.  The me that is a full-time (and quite passionate) photographer. 

Love, Gina

P.S. I have included a few new sessions that I have been hiding away below this post for you to check out!

P.S.S. New Brand = New Facebook page.  Stay up to date here

 

Now anyone that knows me knows that I am addicted to my iPhone. It is something I definitely depend on everyday. From my alarm in the am, to checking email, texts, facebook, twitter; to playing the only 3 games I allow on my phone Skee-Ball, Wheel of Fortune and the ever addicting DoodleJump. As much as our phones/devices keep us in the know, do they really keep us connected? Is that real connection? I recently read an article by Howard Mann in Seth Godin’s awesome free E-book, these words really stuck with me:

“We’ve become slaves to our mobile devices and the glow of our screens. We walk the streets with our heads down staring into 3-inch screens while the world whisks by doing the same. And yet we’re convinced we are more connected to each other than ever before. Multi-tasking has become a badge of honor.”

The line “we walk the streets…” made me realize how often when I am outside I am staring at my phone. I am missing out on connecting with one of my favorite things, the outdoors. Also, I don’t know how many times I have pulled out my phone during dinner conversations, or perused my twitter while on the phone with a good friend. Think of all the precious moments that I let fly by not being present and soaking up the real connection of what is in front of me.

So I am taking a stand and throwing in some self made mandates:

  1. I need to WILL start using a real alarm clock, to avoid checking my phone for emails & updates first in the am. All emails will be there in an hour or two. (Thank Lara for this fabulous pointer)
  2. My phone says in my pocket/purse until I have had 20 deep breaths of air when I get outside. I want to soak in my God-given surroundings.
  3. Strive to be present in conversations. Again keeping my phone/computer shut-down and focus on the person who I am sharing with.

I challenge you to try one of these out with me this week and let me know how it goes. Or if you have any other good unplugging tips, I would love to hear them. Now a small disclaimer, because my lil’ iPhone is glaring at me. I love my iPhone and its abilities and you might be amazing at Multi-tasking and this doesn’t phase you. But personally, I suck at this and I just don’t want it running my life.  Hence the mandates.  Wish me luck!

Just because every post is better with a photo.

 

The only way to have a friend is to be one. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

I wish you a weekend of relaxation over a good cup of joe/chai/wine and great friends and families laughter. Recharge. Refresh. Renew. Invest in your family and friends who support you. Take time for them. This is something I am trying improve on. So join me in setting aside the phone, the email, and the television. Listen. Laugh. Learn. and Love. It’s good for the soul.

 

The video blogs are getting easier my friends, this one only took a couple of times (ok maybe 7 or so) and a little editing. Pretty soon I will be knocking these out on the first try, with time to spare right? Tomorrow, look for a hilarious outtake reel from creating this vlog. Like… I can’t believe Gina is posting this video hilarious.

In this vlog I take you through some pointers I picked up from my latest read Never eat alone by Keith Ferrazzi. This book is a great resource about connecting with people and truly investing in them. Keith is a genius in creating lasting networking relationships. His exercises & tips in this book are super valuable and eye opening.  Enjoy.

(and really YouTube? the screen shots you pull are always so flattering (not) Right here I look like I am ready to pronounce the “ch” sound.  Like Charlie, Chimiganga, Cha Cha, ChattanOOga…ha. I digress.)

Get Keith Ferrazzi video blogs or buy this book. They are both great business resources!